They believe in being free-thinkers, unfettered by the bonds of guru-dom. I edit and write for a living, so this things is my bag. Now, for some time (when I had about 10 homes), if a single person stopped working to pay rent, I could cover it with the 9 other payments. Don't be tricked believing informing fibs will impress that special somebody enough to get relationship started. it will turn them off!